- SUBHANALLAH. ... TERIMA KASIH TELAH MENGIRIM EMAIL INI,
SEJENAK DAPAT MENYEJUKKAN HATI.
HIDUP MEMANG BUKAN HANYA UNTUK MEMENUHI NAFSU..
SEKALI LAGI TERIMA KASIH..
Pada tanggal 12/02/08, ucu sukarna menulis:
Dilihat dari usianya beliau sudah tidak muda lagi, usia yg sudah senja bahkan sudah mendekati malam.
Pak Suyatno 58 tahun kesehariannya diisi dengan merawat istrinya yang sakit. istrinya juga sudah tua.
mereka menikah sudah lebih 32 tahun. Mereka dikarunia 4 orang anak disinilah awal cobaan menerpa, setelah istrinya melahirkan anak ke empat tiba2 kakinya lumpuh dan tidak bisa digerakkan.
itu terjadi selama 2 tahun.
menginjak tahun ke tiga seluruh tubuhnya menjadi lemah bahkan terasa tidak bertulang .
lidahnyapun sudah tidak bisa digerakkan lagi..
Setiap hari pak suyatno memandikan, membersihkan kotoran, menyuapi, dan mengangkat istrinya keatas tempat tidur.
Sebelum berangkat kerja dia letakkan istrinya didepan TV supaya istrinya tidak merasa kesepian.
Walau istrinya tidak dapat bicara tapi dia selalu melihat istrinya tersenyum.
untunglah tempat usaha pak suyatno tidak begitu jauh dari rumahnya sehingga siang hari dia pulang untuk menyuapi istrinya makan siang.
sorenya dia pulang memandikan istrinya, mengganti pakaian dan selepas maghrib dia temani istrinya nonton televisi sambil menceritakan apa2 saja yg dia alami seharian.
Walaupun istrinya hanya bisa memandang tapi tidak bisa menanggapi, pak suyatno sudah cukup senang. bahkan dia selalu menggoda istrinya setiap berangkat tidur.
Rutinitas ini dilakukan pak suyatno lebih kurang 25 tahun.
dengan sabar dia merawat istrinya bahkan sambil membesarkan ke empat buah hati mereka. sekarang anak2 mereka sudah dewasa, tinggal si bungsu yg masih kuliah.
Pada suatu hari ke empat anak suyatno berkumpul dirumah orang tua mereka sambil menjenguk ibunya.
Karena setelah anak mereka menikah sudah tinggal dengan keluarga masing2 dan pak suyatno memutuskan ibu mereka Dia yg merawat, yang dia inginkan hanya satu semua anaknya berhasil.
Dengan kalimat yg cukup hati2 anak yg sulung berkata " Pak kami ingin sekali merawat ibu, semenjak kami kecil melihat bapak merawat ibu tidak ada sedikitpun keluhan keluar dari bibir bapak.
bahkan bapak tidak ijinkan kami menjaga ibu" .
dengan air mata berlinang anak itu melanjutkan kata2nya
"sudah yg keempat kalinya kami mengijinkan bapak menikah lagi. kami rasa ibupun akan mengijinkannya. kapan bapak menikmati masa tua bapak ?
dengan berkorban seperti ini kami sudah tidak tega melihat bapak,
kami janji kami akan merawat ibu bergantian".
Pak suyatno menjawab hal yg sama sekali tidak diduga anak2 mereka.
" Anak2ku , Jikalau hidup di dunia ini hanya untuk nafsu Mungkin bapak akan menikah lagi, tapi ketahuilah, dengan adanya ibu kalian disampingku itu sudah lebih dari cukup.
dia telah Melahirkan kalian"..
sejenak kerongkongannya tersekat,
"kalian yg selalu kurindukan hadir didunia ini dengan penuh cinta yg tidak satupun dapat menghargai dengan apapun.
coba kalian tanya ibumu apakah dia menginginkan keadaanya seperti Ini?
kalian menginginkan bapak bahagia,
apakah bathin bapak bisa bahagia meninggalkan ibumu dengan keadaanya sekarang?
" kalian menginginkan bapak yg masih diberi Allah kesehatan dirawat oleh orang lain bagaimana dengan ibumu yg masih sakit?
Sejenak, meledaklah tangis anak2 pak suyatno.
merekapun melihat butiran2 kecil jatuh dipelupuk mata ibu suyatno..
dengan pilu ditatapnya mata suami yg sangat dicintainya itu..
Sampailah akhirnya pak suyatno diundang oleh salah satu stasiun TV swasta untuk menjadi nara sumber diacara islami Selepas shubuh, dan merekapun mengajukan pertanyaan kepada pak suyatno kenapa mampu bertahan selama 25 tahun merawat Istrinya yg sudah tidak bisa apa2..?
disaat itulah meledak tangis beliau.
tamu yg hadir di studio itu kebanyakan kaum perempuan, merekapun tidak sanggup menahan haru.
disitulah pak suyatno bercerita " Jika manusia didunia ini mengagungkan sebuah cinta tapi dia tidak mencintai karena Allah semuanya akan luntur.
Saya memilih istri saya menjadi pendamping hidup saya, dan sewaktu dia sehat diapun dengan sabar merawat saya, mencintai saya dengan hati dan bathinnya bukan dengan mata, dan dia memberi saya 4 orang anak yg lucu2..
Sekarang dia sakit berkorban untuk saya karena Allah..
dan itu merupakan ujian bagi saya.
sehatpun belum tentu saya mencari penggantinya apalagi dia sakit,,,
setiap malam saya bersujud dan menangis
dan saya dapat bercerita kepada Allah
dan saya yakin hanya kepada Allah saya percaya untuk menyimpan
dan mendengar rahasia saya..
Selasa, 25 Maret 2008
Senin, 24 Maret 2008
Info untuk ORTU yg Anaknya Online di NET !!
Subject: FW: A Must Read - for those with kids who go online Date: Mon, 17 Mar 2008 12:19:41 -0500
MY SPACE : A Must Read for All who have children or grandchildren.... EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE YOUR CHILDREN READ IT TOO!
After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:
ByAngel213: Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!
GoTo123: LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you? Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?
ByAngel213: Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.
GoTo123: Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?
ByAngel213: Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.
GoTo123: Did you have a softball game after school today?
ByAngel213: Yes and we won!!
GoTo123: That's great! Who did you play?
ByAngel213: We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL
GoTo123: What is your team called?
ByAngel213: We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.
GoTo123: Did you pitch?
ByAngel213: No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!
GoTo123: Catch you later. Bye
Meanwhile......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.
Her name: Shannon Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985 Age: 13 State where she lived: North Carolina
Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Cantonbecause she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m.every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the CantonJunior High School. She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.
Shannondidn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.
By Thursday, Shannonhad forgotten about the footsteps following her.
Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.
He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.
After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her. Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.
Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.
Shannonwas in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room. 'Shannon, come here,'her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.
'Sit down,' her father began,'this man has just told us a most interesting story about you.' Shannonsat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!
'Do you know who I am, Shannon?'the man asked.
'No,' Shannonanswered.
'I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123.'
Shannonwas stunned. 'That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan!'
The man smiled. 'I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon, there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze.'
Shannonwas stunned. 'You mean you don't live in Michigan?'
He laughed. 'No, I live in Raleigh. It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?'
She nodded.
'I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?'
'It's a promise!'
That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannonfrom what could have been a tragic situation.
*****NOW*****
Please send this to as many people as you can to teach them not to give any information about themselves. This world we live in today is too dangerous to even give out your age, let alone anything else.
EVEN FORWARD THIS TO PEOPLE WITHOUT KIDS SO THEY CAN SEND IT TO FRIENDS THAT DO HAVE CHILDREN OR GRANDCHILDREN.
MY SPACE : A Must Read for All who have children or grandchildren.... EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE YOUR CHILDREN READ IT TOO!
After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:
ByAngel213: Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!
GoTo123: LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you? Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?
ByAngel213: Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.
GoTo123: Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?
ByAngel213: Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.
GoTo123: Did you have a softball game after school today?
ByAngel213: Yes and we won!!
GoTo123: That's great! Who did you play?
ByAngel213: We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL
GoTo123: What is your team called?
ByAngel213: We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.
GoTo123: Did you pitch?
ByAngel213: No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!
GoTo123: Catch you later. Bye
Meanwhile......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.
Her name: Shannon Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985 Age: 13 State where she lived: North Carolina
Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Cantonbecause she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m.every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the CantonJunior High School. She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.
Shannondidn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.
By Thursday, Shannonhad forgotten about the footsteps following her.
Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.
He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.
After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her. Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.
Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.
Shannonwas in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room. 'Shannon, come here,'her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.
'Sit down,' her father began,'this man has just told us a most interesting story about you.' Shannonsat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!
'Do you know who I am, Shannon?'the man asked.
'No,' Shannonanswered.
'I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123.'
Shannonwas stunned. 'That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan!'
The man smiled. 'I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon, there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze.'
Shannonwas stunned. 'You mean you don't live in Michigan?'
He laughed. 'No, I live in Raleigh. It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?'
She nodded.
'I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?'
'It's a promise!'
That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannonfrom what could have been a tragic situation.
*****NOW*****
Please send this to as many people as you can to teach them not to give any information about themselves. This world we live in today is too dangerous to even give out your age, let alone anything else.
EVEN FORWARD THIS TO PEOPLE WITHOUT KIDS SO THEY CAN SEND IT TO FRIENDS THAT DO HAVE CHILDREN OR GRANDCHILDREN.
Sabtu, 22 Maret 2008
Khasiat Semangka
Subject: Kasiat Semangka
Semangka dipercaya berasal dari gurun Kalahari, Afrika.
Menurut para peneliti, buah ini pertama kali dipanen 5000 tahun yang lalu di Mesir
dan menurut kepercayaan nenek moyang saat itu, buah ini terpakai untuk penguburan
raja-raja agar roh mereka mendapat nutrisi di alam baka.
Dan dari sanalah semangka dibawa keliling ke negara-negara di dunia.
Hari ini, kita tahu bahwa yang sudah dikubur jelas tidak bisa lagi menikmati nutrisi
semangka. Kitalah yang berhak menikmati lezatnya dan betapa bergizinya buah yang satu
potongnya sama fungsinya dengan segelas air tersebut.
Tapi ingat, ketika mengkonsumsi semangka, bagian hijau dekat kulitnya ialah bagian
terpenting yang harus ikut anda makan selain warna merah/kuningnya saja.
Apa saja fungsi semangka?
1. Jika anda sedang diet, maka semangka adalah teman baik anda. Buah ini
bebas lemak dan memiliki kombinasi kadar gula terbatas dan kadar air berlimpah.
Apalagi, buah yang satu ini bersifat cepat mengenyangkan di dalam lambung.
2. Semangka sangat baik bagi pengidap hipertensi.
Kandungan air dan kaliumnya yang tinggi bisa menetralisasi tekanan darah.
3. Semangka juga mempergiat kerja jantung
4. Antioksidannya termasuk betakaroten dan vitamin C membantu sel-sel tubuh
tetap sehat.
5. Semangka juga berfungsi untuk merangsang keluarnya air seni lebih deras
sehingga sangat baik untuk mereka yang mengalami gangguan buang air kecil.
6. Semangka bisa dipakai untuk menurunkan demam
7. Semangka bisa mencegah sariawan dengan ampuh.
Apa benar semangka adalah buah anti kanker?
Semua berawal dari likopen.
Likopen salah satu komponen karotenoid seperti halnya betakaroten.
Tapi diibandingkan antioksidan lainnya, seperti vitamin C dan E, kekuatan
likopen dalam memerangi radikal bebas jauh lebih ampuh. Radikal bebas berlangsung
tak terkendali, baik karena pola makan yang kacau, polusi atau pikiran negatif,
kekebalan tubuh akan menurun. Akibatnya ya berbagai macam penyakit dan kulit tubuhpun
menjadi kering, suram, dan kendur.
Dengan likopen yang terdapat dalam semangka, radikal bebas bisa langsung lumpuh!
Likopen inilah yang mampu menumpas bibit kanker.
Banyak makan semangka, bahkan setiap hari pun tak masalah, justru dapat menyusutkan
risiko kanker mulut rahim dan kanker pankreas pada wanita.
Terhadap kanker pencernaan, likopen semangka mampu mencegahnya hingga risikonya
berkurang separuhnya, seperti kanker rongga mulut, kanker kerongkongan, kanker lambung,
kanker usus besar, kanker anus. Begitu pula dengan kanker prostat. Wah!
Selain itu, likopen berguna untuk membuat wajah tampak bercahaya, tampak segar dan
lebih muda.
Bagi lansia, semangka tidak hanya membantu memulihkan gangguan kesehatan lebih cepat,
namun juga membantu meningkatkan kemampuan mental dan ketajaman daya ingat.
Semangka disebut BUAH KUAT untuk pria, benarkah??
Likopen dalam semangka juga menyumbangkan kasiat khusus untuk pria menikah.
Buah ini bisa meningkatkan kesuburan dan membantu membangkitkan gairah seksual pria.
Bagi mereka yang rindu punya keturunan, buah ini juga bisa sangat membantu.
Percaya atau tidak, penelitian menunjukkan bahwa senyawa sitrulin dalam semangka,
memiliki efek afrosidiak yang sama hebatnya dengan viagra, tapi sama sekali tanpa efek
samping. Mau coba?
Semangka lokal berbiji, semangka tanpa biji, semangka kuning, semangka merah,
semangka impor, semangka bulat, semangka lonjong, atau varietas yang manapun itu,
semangka tetap buah unggul dan berkhasiat tinggi! Jadikan buah ini sebagai kado cinta
anda untuk keluarga.
Aman dinikmati seberapa pun anda suka dan segarnya pun tiada tara.
Semangka dipercaya berasal dari gurun Kalahari, Afrika.
Menurut para peneliti, buah ini pertama kali dipanen 5000 tahun yang lalu di Mesir
dan menurut kepercayaan nenek moyang saat itu, buah ini terpakai untuk penguburan
raja-raja agar roh mereka mendapat nutrisi di alam baka.
Dan dari sanalah semangka dibawa keliling ke negara-negara di dunia.
Hari ini, kita tahu bahwa yang sudah dikubur jelas tidak bisa lagi menikmati nutrisi
semangka. Kitalah yang berhak menikmati lezatnya dan betapa bergizinya buah yang satu
potongnya sama fungsinya dengan segelas air tersebut.
Tapi ingat, ketika mengkonsumsi semangka, bagian hijau dekat kulitnya ialah bagian
terpenting yang harus ikut anda makan selain warna merah/kuningnya saja.
Apa saja fungsi semangka?
1. Jika anda sedang diet, maka semangka adalah teman baik anda. Buah ini
bebas lemak dan memiliki kombinasi kadar gula terbatas dan kadar air berlimpah.
Apalagi, buah yang satu ini bersifat cepat mengenyangkan di dalam lambung.
2. Semangka sangat baik bagi pengidap hipertensi.
Kandungan air dan kaliumnya yang tinggi bisa menetralisasi tekanan darah.
3. Semangka juga mempergiat kerja jantung
4. Antioksidannya termasuk betakaroten dan vitamin C membantu sel-sel tubuh
tetap sehat.
5. Semangka juga berfungsi untuk merangsang keluarnya air seni lebih deras
sehingga sangat baik untuk mereka yang mengalami gangguan buang air kecil.
6. Semangka bisa dipakai untuk menurunkan demam
7. Semangka bisa mencegah sariawan dengan ampuh.
Apa benar semangka adalah buah anti kanker?
Semua berawal dari likopen.
Likopen salah satu komponen karotenoid seperti halnya betakaroten.
Tapi diibandingkan antioksidan lainnya, seperti vitamin C dan E, kekuatan
likopen dalam memerangi radikal bebas jauh lebih ampuh. Radikal bebas berlangsung
tak terkendali, baik karena pola makan yang kacau, polusi atau pikiran negatif,
kekebalan tubuh akan menurun. Akibatnya ya berbagai macam penyakit dan kulit tubuhpun
menjadi kering, suram, dan kendur.
Dengan likopen yang terdapat dalam semangka, radikal bebas bisa langsung lumpuh!
Likopen inilah yang mampu menumpas bibit kanker.
Banyak makan semangka, bahkan setiap hari pun tak masalah, justru dapat menyusutkan
risiko kanker mulut rahim dan kanker pankreas pada wanita.
Terhadap kanker pencernaan, likopen semangka mampu mencegahnya hingga risikonya
berkurang separuhnya, seperti kanker rongga mulut, kanker kerongkongan, kanker lambung,
kanker usus besar, kanker anus. Begitu pula dengan kanker prostat. Wah!
Selain itu, likopen berguna untuk membuat wajah tampak bercahaya, tampak segar dan
lebih muda.
Bagi lansia, semangka tidak hanya membantu memulihkan gangguan kesehatan lebih cepat,
namun juga membantu meningkatkan kemampuan mental dan ketajaman daya ingat.
Semangka disebut BUAH KUAT untuk pria, benarkah??
Likopen dalam semangka juga menyumbangkan kasiat khusus untuk pria menikah.
Buah ini bisa meningkatkan kesuburan dan membantu membangkitkan gairah seksual pria.
Bagi mereka yang rindu punya keturunan, buah ini juga bisa sangat membantu.
Percaya atau tidak, penelitian menunjukkan bahwa senyawa sitrulin dalam semangka,
memiliki efek afrosidiak yang sama hebatnya dengan viagra, tapi sama sekali tanpa efek
samping. Mau coba?
Semangka lokal berbiji, semangka tanpa biji, semangka kuning, semangka merah,
semangka impor, semangka bulat, semangka lonjong, atau varietas yang manapun itu,
semangka tetap buah unggul dan berkhasiat tinggi! Jadikan buah ini sebagai kado cinta
anda untuk keluarga.
Aman dinikmati seberapa pun anda suka dan segarnya pun tiada tara.
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